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Following the commencement of the Big Brother Naija season 7 reality TV show, the Shella ship happens to be one of the ships in the BBNaija house that has captured the heart of many viewers.
It’s no news that Bella and Sheggz have genuinely confessed their love for each other on national TV. However, their constant disagreements and quarrels is beginning to question a lot and is also becoming a bore for some viewers of the reality TV show.
In less than two months since they both got into the BBNaija house and became romantically involved, the duo have had fights and disagreements umpteen times, and this isn’t healthy for not just the relationship, but the partners involved.
However, judging from most of their fallouts and the genesis of the numerous incidents, it appears they both need to come to a better conclusion within themselves to sustain their relationship, and the main fault spotted in both parties is: “expecting so much and giving so little.” In other words;
—Sheggz expecting Bella to change and not being willing to tolerate.
—Bella expecting Sheggz to tolerate and not being willing to change.
Aside from love, respect, honesty, trust and healthy conversations to find out ways to serve each other better, a healthy relationship also needs effort and compromise from both partners. This being said;
Sheggz met Bella the way she is and fell in love with her. No doubt, on the long run, it is expected that things should be different with him and his lover, Bella considering the fact that she loves him. However, it should also be understood that she can not change one hundred percent. At some point, even if she’s going to change to an extent because she loves him and wants him to be happy, he is going to have to tolerate certain things as well, and not complain.
On Bella’s part, it should be understood that when one is making efforts to tolerate and let certain things slide, the gesture should be appreciated deeply. Also, seeing that he is making efforts to be tolerant of certain things, although it is not in his nature to do so, she should avoid triggering a reaction from her love interest at every given opportunity. This is where change comes in willingly.
Finally, in a relationship, both partners should avoid threatening themselves with a breakup out of anger, unless they mean it. They should learn to only address the issue that brought about the disagreements.
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